Have you noticed that the differences between a husband and wife seem to become more highlighted the longer we are married? What we used to view as unique and special about the other now seems to stick out like a sore thumb. We tend to notice the differences more as the years go by, and most likely tend to grow more annoyed with each other. What if we shifted our focus from one another back to Christ? What would happen if we chose to grow in our love for each other because of our love for Christ? Doing this would allow us to keep unity and still become one despite all our differences. We would recognize the strengths that our differences bring to our relationship, and we can celebrate the wisdom of our Heavenly Father.